Monday, April 27, 2009

Not easy

Sorry for the MIA.. mom is very busy these days.. mom promised me last night to blog more for me.. and that she wanna use my blog for this post for her personal use. She got something to voice out in her heart.. but she doesn't know how.. so she thought of this blog and wanna type out whatever she could.. to relieve out.. to voice out.. to feel better...

Mom is busy with her work and of course this is good.. because it means good business for her.. but besides busy with works and jobs..She had a very bad habit which she is lazy and she's a type of "delay" person..she always has "TOMMOROW" in her mind.. and this is why she is busy busy and busy... bcoz she is trying to get this 2 bad habits out of herself, she is trying to clear everything up.. and now she had something deep inside her heart that she doesn't know how to voice out..

Life is not easy.. you've got to care how people felt.. you've got to care how people think of you... you've got to care alot... mom did always tell her friends that worries alot, "don't worry for things that had already happened, because it already happened and there's no UNDO, don't worry things that had not happened, because, no one can predict the future, when it comes, it comes" She is only good in telling and comforting her friends.. but when things come to her, she go panic and don't know what to do.

Mom choose to be single because NOW mom trust us DOGS more than man. Or should I say, mom hasn't found someone that she really have the heart and feel. But guess what people talk bout mom.. "psstt.. she's a lesbian".... "psstt psstt.. she must be going out with someone's husband that makes her so secretive".. "psstttt...pssstt.. nah... she's still couldn't let go that someone"... EXCUSE ME... is this the way human goes? is this the way people have to talk? Mom cares alot last time about this words throwing on her.. but now, she learns to IGNORE them.. What for she has to be upset for things that is not true? Mom learnt to smile when they say this kind of things.. or she learns to laugh too.. But but.. but when this kind of words hurt people that mom cares.. hurt people that is so innocent.. should she still smile and laugh? NO WAY! mom loves people that she cares and love to be happy.. She wouldn't want anyone to hurt them..

Mom doesn't mind at all for how people sees her. But why people tends to step a huge step over her head. She doesn't want to talk about it is because, she doesn't want people to worry for her, or she doesn't want to disturb people, not that she is trying to be secretive.. Mom choose to keep things to herself (or sometimes talking to me). Mom tends to be a very happy-go-lucky person... mom is a very optimistic person indeed.. Abit of thing would make her laugh her lungs out.. Thats why, sometimes she is more a bit ease over her stress..

Mom now starts to feel the tired... mentally and physically... very very tired......


Twinkle a.k.a Chicken Little said...

Dear Goofy, please tell ya mom that me & mommy love her berry much. (I might love you more.) We will give her extra hugs & kisses (I will give you more) and I will give those stoopid hoooman that bully your mom a big bite.

Extra extra extra slurpy licks,

Maggie said...

Please ask ur mommy not to worry so much..
and let her stand tall !!
we girls know how to have fun..! don't worry
single is also good for health :)

Love love n kiss kiss

Maggie n mom

Bae Bae said...

Goofy.. please give big licks to your mom for us.
It's hurtful when people try to gossip about things that are not true.
Do you want us to send poopoo to those gossipers?

~ Bae

Prince said...

Pappy also not happy those weeks because of some personal reason.

You are right goofy, Human... I would say is right to trust dog than human.... pshhhtttttt...

Take care of your mum... Hope your mummy will be happy.

Jiro@Rocky Loot said...

Tell your mom to enjoy her life and no need to bother what other human says..we doggies all loves her & you..

Lorenza said...

Hi, Goofy!
Haaaaa! My mom knows those gossips too!
They used to hurt her but... no longer! She just ignore them! She says you have to please yourself not the others.
Give her lots of kisses and hugs from us, ok?
Take care

Lacy said...

w00fs Goofy, me mama wants to talk to ur thing i have learned in my lots of years, is u cant please all the people all the time...sooo, just make sure u do whats right for urself and b true to urself..and what the others think is not important...

b safe,
~rocky and mama~

Simba and Jazzi said...

You Mummy sounds like a lovely person and only mean people would say things about her like that. We are sending nose licks to cheer her up.

Simba and Jazzi xxx

Pedro said...


Please tell your mom that my mom knows how she feels. My mom didn't get married until she was 37 (and sometimes wishes she had stayed single always). People used to say all kinds of things about her. Her own family said things about her that hurt deeply. Tell your mom that even though it can be hard to hear such hurtful things, she knows her heart and she knows (and so do we!) that she is a good person. I hope your mom feels better. She's very lucky to have you.


Amber-Mae said...

Mean people say that because they got nothing better to do in their lives. They just want to "masuk campur" & make up lots of stories to make their lives more interesting. BOL! Please tell your Mom not to worry. My Mommy is still young & she has already gone through a lot of bad stuff & trauma in her life including being bullied. She's a strong gal & just ignored everything bad & just moved on with her life. It worked! Please hug your Mom for us okay? Tell her to be strong.

Solid Gold Dancer

Life With Dogs said...

Good to hear from you again! Don't let others drag you down - your dog friends are always here :)

Snoopygirl said...

Hi Goofy,

My human went through a difficult process at work too. She got bullied and etc.

My brother and I somehow sense it and kept licking our human so that she got happier.

Anyway, ignore what the humans say, though it is hard. Hang in there.

Snoopygirl & Rustyboy

duo_disaster said...

Dear Goofy (and Lily),

It's sad to read your return post in this manner but we think it's a good outlet to relieve stress.

There are indeed MANY such people out there. They really have nothing better to do, so please do not give worth (waste time/effort) on them. Spend them on better stuffs -- period.

Even now, our M too has a pricky thorn that mouths nothing but dung over a long expired, or should we said it has drifted into non-existance issue. It has climaxed to the point that she finds it meaningless to refute those lame cooked up stories or step down to the level of the meaner to fight.

Explaining proves futile.
More does nothing but worse.

M believes good friends will discern dung words & would stand by rain or shine with her.

Let go & let GOD!

You have the choice to make your day a happy or a sad one, we choose the former.

Happiness & peace we bless you.

With much LOVE,
Rudolf, Goofy & M Andra.

SUSAN KEMP said...

Gratefulness is the key to a happy life that we hold in our hands, because if we are not grateful, then no matter how much we have we will not be happy -- because we will always want to have something else or something more.